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Studmuffintop   Australia
Joined 15 years
yeah it happens and it will happen again as has been said above me.

Had a great friendship with this one girl. Could read her like a book and vice versa. Had one little disagreement and since then no contact and i would really like to know how she is going even just hey how are you type of thing but best thing to do i think is to find someone else to spend your energy on. As there heaps of people that I'm sure would like to talk and hang out with you and just shit talk with ya whenever they can.
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FatFairy   Netherlands
Joined 15 years
Benito wrote:
cuts you out of their life without any reasons given as to why?
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Basically im just asking has this happened to you and how have you dealt with it? Is it just something that gets better over time or is there anything i can do to "get over it"?


deeds before words!
(and remember it all good!)

All those words said are nice but mean nothing if there is no concrete behavior supporting it.

Second thing: if someone really cares, he/she would make very sure how you feel, what you think or to make the promises true. And will make things happen. If not, if they disappear, delay or avoid - then he/she is just not that much into you!



PS [It was actually really good on Friday to go to that All-you-can-eat Wok restaurant and then popcorn and movie with a nice male company. It immediately puts you into perspective, and leaves fantasy world to fantasy. And it feels much better alive too smiley. I still cannot believe how I got strangled in that online thing firstplace. I hope the author got his point.]
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AskDrFeeder   United States
Joined 16 years
It happens on this site, it happens on other sites, it even happens in "real life".

This:

feeder_f wrote:
The best thing you can do is stop dwelling on these questions.
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No_Limit_Soldier17   United States
Joined 16 years
Well, I don't know about friendships, but there have been girls who I have talked to who just flat out stop texting or calling without telling me why. They just choose to ignore me until I give up.

I have a few examples of this and one of them is very recent. This girl added me on Facebook about a week ago. She was mutual friends with some other girl and she added me because she thought that I seemed nice and she thought that I was cute. We texted each other for a little bit and then today, she deleted me. That is kind of a record in talking to someone and to just not wanting to talk to someone. It's not like I blew up her phone or anything. I texted a few times but I didn't go overboard. Well, considering that it was only for a week, I'm like "whatever." It's her loss. I can totally understand if I blew up her phone or gave her 10 texts in one day to no avail, but that wasn't the case. Again, it's her loss.
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